Setting Up Goals – And Why You Should Not

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For as long as I can remember, everyone was talking about the importance of setting up goals. And I have done that because this is what you are supposed to do if you want to have certain things in life. But this always felt off to me. However, I did not dare to trust my intuition, because this is what a responsible adult must do to be successful. So I followed the advice of the experts and diligently made goals in my professional and personal life. But there came a time when I matured enough to trust my instincts and …

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How To Find Happiness At Work?

How To Find Happiness At Work?

When it comes to our professional lives, happiness is not a topic that is discussed often. Somehow it seems not appropriate, maybe even unprofessional to talk about happiness. And yet, isn’t happiness what everyone is chasing? People look for fulfillment, recognition, achievements, etc. in their careers but don’t we chase those things because we think it will give us a feeling of happiness? So why not get rid of the middle parts and go straight to the final goal, happiness. Why not put some effort into finding out how to find happiness at work? Related: Why Do I Hate My …

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How To Improve People Skills?

How To Improve People Skills

Whether it’s our personal lives or working lives, people skills are crucial to achieving success. By putting conscious effort into improving our people skills, we could improve all areas of our lives. So how do we do that, how do we improve our people skills? How To Improve People Skills? People skills, like any other skills, will take some planning and lots of practice to improve. There are many proposed methods and ways to improve your people skills but to me, this comes down to a change of attitude. The second you manage to genuinely care about people, your people …

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Why Is Cognitive Flexibility Important?

Why Is Cognitive Flexibility Important?

We all know people that are able to adopt very quickly to different perspectives, environments, or are able to change one’s way of thinking. They seem to be able to find more solutions to a problem or a challenge. Their life appears to be less stressful and more fun. They seem to be able to put on a different kind of thinking-cap for the moment and examine facts, situations, environments from different perspectives. Those people have developed cognitive flexibility. What is cognitive flexibility? Why is cognitive flexibility important? How can we develop cognitive flexibility? Related: What Is Attentive Listening? And …

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What Is Attentive Listening? And How To Practice It?

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We are all guilty of it. We do not listen to understand, instead, we listen to answer. But if we spend a little bit of time learning what is attentive listening and some simple techniques, we can become very successful communicators. Hearing But Not Listening “If you make listening and observation your occupation, you will gain much more than you can by talk.” — Robert Baden-Powell We spend a lot of time talking and listening in an attempt to try to communicate with each other. However, communicating with others is not an easy thing to do, and to perfect this …

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How Can Time Management Help You Get More Life?

How Can Time Management Help You Get More Life?

Your day is exactly as long as everyone else’s. Yet some people seem to get more from time than others. If we learn to manage our time properly we can achieve that too. We can learn some basic time management principles and guidelines and as a result get more time to enjoy as we wish. Let’s see how can time management help you enjoy your life more. Related: Why Is Conflict Good? – Opportunities Provided By Conflict   Benefits Of Proper Time Management “He who every morning plans the transactions of that day and follows that plan carries a thread …

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What Is Good Quality Content? How To Achieve It?

What Is Good Quality Content? How To Achieve It?

Everyone is talking about good quality content and how it is crucial for Google ranking and attracting and retaining your readers. But exactly what is good quality content? And since it’s so important, how can we achieve it? What Is Good Quality Content? “Make your customers the hero of your stories.” ~Ann Handley In a nutshell, a good (high) quality content is content that gives the reader the information that he/she is looking for when they are searching for a specific keyword/phrase. But of course as simple as that sounds, it is not. Many components go into this:   #1 …

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How Do People Read Blogs? – A Guide To Successful Blogging

How Do People Read Blogs? - A Guide To Successful Blogging

We put a lot of effort into our blogs and we want our readers to read the content and enjoy it. But in order to achieve that, we need to spend some time learning and understanding how do people read blogs? This will be time very well spent. Give the readers what they are looking for and in the format that is best suited to them, and a success will be guaranteed. Related: How To Get More Traffic On A Blog? How Do People Read Blogs? The first thing you learn when you’re blogging is that people are one click …

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Why Is Conflict Good? – Opportunities Provided By Conflict

Why Is Conflict Good? - Opportunities Provided By Conflict

We have all experienced conflict in our professional as well as personal lives. For the most part we do not enjoy conflict and often try to eliminate it from our experiences. But conflict, if understood and managed properly can provide many great opportunities and benefits. Let’s explore, why is conflict good? Conflict Can Be Negative “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” – William James There is no question about that. Conflict, if not understood properly and mismanaged can be very …

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How To Be A Successful Negotiator?

How To Be A Successful Negotiator?

When we hear the term negotiation, a big and official boardroom comes to mind However, whether you realize it or not, we are negotiating all the time in our everyday lives. We negotiate with our kids, our spouses, our friends and co-workers. Every time you are trying to convince someone of something, you are actually negotiating. Negotiation is an art. You can master the art of negotiating by learning the basic principles, tactics and other applicable aspects. Let’s explore if we can learn how to be a successful negotiator? Related: Effective Delegation Tips – Delegating For Dynamic Results   Basic …

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